This issue occurred so often in my setup that I got rid of homekit in node-red and moved over to homebridge-mqtt and never looked back (it requires homebridge and a different mindset), extremely fast to add/remove/update devices with custom "services" and all done using MQTT and the "not responding" always disappears quickly.
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