Additional information on validation of custom node

No, that is correct, you can't use those. However, Node-RED provides a notification utility for this purpose. I'll look it up and update this post when I find it.

RED.notify('Your message here', options)

You will also find some examples in uibuilder's code.

Of course, in addition, you can put in-line help information in the configuration panel to help people understand how to input correct configurations.