I think this is the key error
See distutils is removed in Python 3.12 · Issue #2869 · nodejs/node-gyp · GitHub for the reason. Python 3.12 does not have that module. node-gyp was fixed at version 10, but you only have 8.4.1.
Can you drop Python back to 3.10?
I don't know whether it is possible to upgrade node-gyp or if that will cause other problems.
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