Have a look at node-red-contrib-ramp-thermostat.
If that does not help, then provide an example of your flow and inputs, then we can give more advise.
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here is a simple comparison, it has a deadband so once it reaches set point it has to fall below dead band value to turn off, this is to stop any oscillation.
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