Cant say thanks enough for the support! Really good community here 
Ive ended up with this so far. So regardless of any system reboots the date and time will always be correct and only alert me 3 days later, if someone is at home between 4-7pm. The alert will trigger every 30min until i hit the button, creating a updates timestamp which puts it 3 days later again. 
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