My guess is the S7 node is the issue not telegram. What S7 nodes are you using? node-red-contrib-???????
Go to its repository and read the open and closed issues - I believe this is not an uncommon issue with S7 nodes.
The truth is a contrib node should never crash node-red. Node-red is incredibly stable but if the node creators don't correctly handle errors they can bring node-red down
I am using node-red-contrib-s7, and probably it is the issue. I took a look to issues in git and found a similar problem. I am going to try to use the older node-red-contrib-s7comm and see if it will work stable.
It looks node-red-contrib-s7 has issue when connection is not always good as well in my case, where the connection is done to a PLC behind an 3G router.
node-red-contrib-s7comm looks to be more stable and looks working after a couple of days.