Is Node red able to control any software under windows?

Node-RED is totally JavaScript as it uses Node.js under the skin. There is a Python function node but there isn't a realistic way to write nodes in Python.

You can also use the exec node to call Python scripts.

You can certainly use Node-RED with Windows, I do all my development on it. You can call windows applications using the exec node or you can call out to PowerShell if you need more OS control.

A quick search showed a JavaScript extension for the Unreal Engine so maybe that would help?