Just updated the first post to include @TotallyInformation's comments;
# Local MQTT
listener 1883
# Secure MQTT
listener 8883
## This is standard and should always be this
cafile /etc/ssl/certs/DST_Root_CA_X3.pem
## These are from your installation of LE
certfile /home/pi/.node-red/certs/fullchain.pem
keyfile /home/pi/.node-red/certs/privkey.pem
## Forces use of modern version of TLS to avoid security issues
tls_version tlsv1.2
## Force all clients in this listener to provide a valid certificate, change the node config to allow this from NR
#require_certificate true