Just if you are interested....
I wrote a subflow
to do something like that.
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The text is displayed by default.\n```\n```\ncolourA - the background colour if condition `A` is selected. (Temporary)\n```\n```\ncolourB - the background colour if condition `B` is selected. (Temporary)\n```\n```\ntxtA - The text to display if condition `A` is selected.\n```\n```\ntxtB - The text to display if condition `B` is selected.\n```\n```\ntxtclrA - the colour of the text if condition `A` is selected.\n```\n```\ntxtclrB - the colour of the text if condtion `B` is selected.\n```\n```\npayloadA - the text sent to the output if condtion `A` is selected.\n```\n```\npayloadB - the text sent to the output if condition `B` is selected.\n```\n```\nThese payloads can then be used to set context values or used to control (external node) `gate`\n```\n```\ntopicSET - the message topic which is sent to the `gate`.\n(this is needed if/when used to control the afore mentioned `gate` nodes.)\n```\n\nThe *temporary* meaning is that the button will show that colour for a few seconds\nthen it will turn to the `disabled` colour.\n\nThe active time is `3` seconds (adjustable via the `delay` value) to press/toggle the button once initially pressed.\nNow: if you keep pressing the button, it will *wait* until you finish pressing it.\n\nThe background colours (and text colours) apply to the `button` node (or other) that is pressed.\nThat node must be configured to allow inputs of `{{msg.txt}}`, `{{msg.colour}}` and `{{mdg.fontclr}}`.\n\n****\nFoot note:\n`msg.payload = \"0/1\"` `msg.toic = \"D\"`\nToggles debug mode.","category":"","in":[{"x":190,"y":260,"wires":[{"id":"c43c865d57f36958"},{"id":"e8e0b354f6fd8938"}]}],"out":[{"x":930,"y":220,"wires":[{"id":"c43c865d57f36958","port":0}]},{"x":950,"y":300,"wires":[{"id":"c43c865d57f36958","port":1}]}],"env":[{"name":"delay","type":"num","value":"","ui":{"type":"input","opts":{"types":["num"]}}},{"name":"StartOn","type":"str","value":"","ui":{"label":{"en-US":"StartCond"},"type":"input","opts":{"types":["str"]}}},{"name":"mode","type":"num","value":""},{"name":"disabledColour","type":"str","value":""},{"name":"disabledTXT","type":"str","value":""},{"name":"colourA","type":"str","value":""},{"name":"colourB","type":"str","value":""},{"name":"txtA","type":"str","value":""},{"name":"txtB","type":"str","value":""},{"name":"txtclrA","type":"str","value":""},{"name":"txtclrB","type":"str","value":""},{"name":"payloadA","type":"str","value":""},{"name":"payloadB","type":"str","value":""},{"name":"topicSET","type":"str","value":""}],"meta":{},"color":"#3FADB5","outputLabels":["To the `GATE` node","To the `BUTTON` node"],"icon":"node-red-dashboard/ui_switch.png","status":{"x":860,"y":380,"wires":[{"id":"4d8b7aa6.6af80c","port":0}]}},{"id":"4d8b7aa6.6af80c","type":"status","z":"ce274e69.c6f778","name":"","scope":["c43c865d57f36958"],"x":590,"y":380,"wires":[[]]},{"id":"c43c865d57f36958","type":"function","z":"ce274e69.c6f778","name":"Push Button","func":"// ---- Assign variable names to ENV variables.\n// all future use of variables is by their names below.\n// These are the userdefined variables from ENV\nconst INPUT = msg.payload;\n//var mode = env.get(\"mode\");\nvar mode = parseInt(env.get(\"mode\"));\nconst Disabledcolour = env.get(\"disabledColour\");\nconst disabledTXT = env.get(\"disabledTXT\");\nconst colourA = env.get(\"colourA\");\nconst colourB = env.get(\"colourB\");\nconst txtA = env.get(\"txtA\");\nconst txtB = env.get(\"txtB\");\nconst txtclrA = env.get(\"txtclrA\");\nconst txtclrB = env.get(\"txtclrB\");\nconst payloadA = env.get(\"payloadA\");\nconst payloadB = env.get(\"payloadB\");\nlet topic = env.get(\"topicSET\");\nif (topic === undefined)\n topic = \"\";\n\n// These are other variables\nlet state = context.get(\"STATE\")||0;\nlet enabled = context.get(\"ENABLED\")||0;\nconst msg1 = {};\n\n\n//--------------------------------------------\n\n\nif (msg.topic === \"D\")\n{\n context.set(\"DEBUG\",msg.payload);\n // Show env \n node.warn(\"Disabled colour \" + Disabledcolour);\n node.warn(\"Disabled text \" + disabledTXT);\n node.warn(\"colourA \" + colourA);\n node.warn(\"colourB \" + colourB); 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