Haha, I sympathise. I put it off for ages. But once I managed to pick up an ElectroLama dongle and installed Zigbee2MQTT, the rest was realy easy. Ikea gave me a bunch of nice, low-cost devices to play with. I did hope that I might be able to at least see the output from the Wiser TRV's as well but you can only have one hub for a Zigbee network. The TRV's report back to their own controller. But that's OK because I grab the data from the controllers REST API anyway
I now have a couple of bulbs, a couple of switches and a couple of PIR sensors and they all work really well. I'm slowly retiring my old LightwaveRF devices. Zigbee is so much more reliable. The Ikea bulbs also give me really reliable dimming which is nice. Not only to save powr but also to extend the life of the bulbs.
Yes, well, once you've decorated, you are only "the cable guy where we buried cables" guy!
Yes, it really does make more sense. But don't forget, it you have cupboards or shelves, you can often hide a USB powered Wi-Fi sensor platform and those are trivial and cheap to make.
I get it. I'm just an adopted Yorkshire-man and, as such, a penny-pincher
Also, it was some years of working on her before my wife would even accept different lighting concepts. Screens in rooms is still a step too far!
Actually though, for some years, I have wanted to create a Pi-based "alarm clock" that would look nice in a bedroom and so gain SWIMBO acceptance.
Truth is though, that after a couple of years of having the Wiser heating system, she decided she wanted more control over the rooms she was in and so started actually using the phone app. So really I suspect that even for her, a phone app would be a more acceptable interface than screens around the house.
And that suits me because I don't want to pay a thousand pounds or more to equip the house with loads of fixed screens that have to be maintained & will hardly (if ever) get used. All of the occupants of the house always carry phones so that is a better path for us.
I'll keep working on you Bart, you'll come round to my way of thinking in the end - everyone does