I have a node which can be used multiple times in the flow, so whenever any one of those node fails I want to spotlight the same in the flow.! is there any way to do that.?
You can add a status display to your node. But in general, the Editor is not designed to be used as a Dashboard so has limited abilities for that. You can also use
node.error functions in your runtime, these will output to the debug sidebar as well as the Node-RED log and should have links to the originating node.