If you specify the flow name in the command line it will always load that flow & therefore hostname is irrelevant.
>node-red --help
Node-RED v1.0.4
Usage: node-red [-v] [-?] [--settings settings.js] [--userDir DIR]
[--port PORT] [--title TITLE] [--safe] [flows.json]
Options:
-p, --port PORT port to listen on
-s, --settings FILE use specified settings file
--title TITLE process window title
-u, --userDir DIR use specified user directory
-v, --verbose enable verbose output
--safe enable safe mode
-?, --help show this help
Documentation can be found at http://nodered.org
e.g. start node-red and specify the flow file...
node-red myflow.json
Alternatively...
Edit the settings.js file...
// The file containing the flows. If not set, it defaults to flows_<hostname>.json
//flowFile: 'flows.json',