Hey guys,
Long story short, we created a system to manage software across thousands of devices. Turns out it's good to manage your home-lab too
Here's a short guide (How to setup Node-RED on a RaspberryPi with remote HTTPS and SSH access : synpse.net) that will allow you to manage your Node-RED installation (and any other containers like Home Assistant, Jupyterlab, Plex, etc) on your edge device while also providing tunnel based SSH and HTTPS remote access.
Enjoy! If you need to manage more than 5 devices, please reach out.